Enjoy your life (under construction)

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  • Enjoy your life (under construction)

  • Improve yourself

    You sit with someone who is twenty years old and notice
    that he has particular etiquettes, logic and thought. You then sit
    with him when he is thirty to discover that he is exactly the
    way he was ten years ago and has not improved at all. Yet, you
    sit with others and you feel that they are actually taking benefit
    from their lives. You discover that they improve themselves on a
    daily basis. In fact, not an hour passes except that they improve
    either religiously or otherwise. If you wish to ponder upon the
    different types of people with respect to self-improvement, then
    think about the following:
    There are those who like to watch those satellite television
    channels that help their general knowledge and intelligence
    grow. They benefit from other people’s experiences by watching
    constructive discussions, from which they learn the characteristics
    of debating and improve their language, understanding, and
    expertise in debate and persuasion.
    Then there are those who cannot miss out on a series about
    a failed love story, or an emotional play, or a horror film, or films
    about useless fantasies with no link to reality at all.
    Notice the difference between the two after five or ten years.
    Which of the two would have improved the most in his skills and
    ability to fathom information, gain general knowledge, have the
    power to convince others, or successfully be able to cope with
    diverse situations? No doubt the first person! You will find the
    mannerisms of the first person to be completely different.
    When he argues, he does so on the basis of legal references,
    facts and figures, while the second can only quote the words of
    actors and singers, so much so that one such person once said
    during a discussion, “Allah says: ‘Strive, my servant, and I shall
    strive with you!’’
    We informed him that this is not a verse from the Qur’an.
    His complexion changed and he fell silent. I then thought about
    the phrase and it occurred to me that it is an Egyptian idiom
    which was imprinted on his mind after watching a drama series!
    Let’s look at it from another angle – that of reading newspapers
    and magazines. How many people take an interest in reading
    beneficial news and information that helps them in developing
    their personality, improves their skills and increases their general
    knowledge? Yet, how many are those who cannot read except
    sports and entertainment news? This is true to such an extent
    that many newspapers compete with each other by increasing
    the sports and entertainment pages at the cost of other sections.
    The same can be said about our gatherings and the things
    in which we spend our time.
    Hence, if you would like to be a head instead of a tail, then
    eagerly try to practice all skills, regardless of what they may be.
    ‘Abdullah was an energetic person but lacking in certain skills.
    One day, he left his home to pray Dhuhr in the mosque. It was
    his zeal for the prayer and respect for his religion which brought
    him out to pray. He was walking fast in order to reach the
    mosque before the Iqamah was given. On his way, he passed by
    a date-palm tree on top of which there was a man in uniform,
    working on the tree. ‘Abdullah became surprised and thought,
    “Who is this man that does not care about the prayer! It is as if
    he didn’t even hear the Adhan, or doesn’t care about the Iqamah,
    which is about to go!”
    He shouted in anger, “Get down and pray!”
    The man responded coldly, “OK, OK...”
    He said, again, “Hurry up and pray, you donkey!”
    The man screamed, “You called me a donkey?!” He then took
    a branch of the tree and descended in order to hit him over the
    head with it! ‘Abdullah hid his face with his headscarf so the man
    wouldn’t recognise him and went on to the mosque. The man
    descended from the tree in anger, went to his house, prayed and
    rested for a while. He then returned to the tree to finish his job.
    Then ‘Asr time came and ‘Abdullah went to the mosque again.
    On his way he passed by the same tree and noticed the same
    man working. He decided to change his method altogether and
    said, ‘As-salamu ‘alaykum! How are you?”
    The man replied, “Al-hamdulillah, I am fine!”
    He said, “Give me some good news. How are the dates this
    The man said, “Al-Hamdulillah.”
    ‘Abdullah said, “May Allah give you success and provision,
    make your life easy for you, and not deprive you of the reward
    for your work!”
    The man was overjoyed at hearing this supplication and said
    ameen to the prayer.
    ‘Abdullah then said, “It seems that you are so preoccupied
    with work that perhaps you didn’t notice the Adhan for ‘Asr
    prayer. The Adhan has been called and the Iqamah is about to be
    given. Perhaps you should get down, relax a little and get ready
    for prayer. After the prayer you can get on with your work again.
    May Allah keep you healthy.”
    The man said, “InshaAllah... InshaAllah...” and began to descend
    He then turned to ‘Abdullah, shook his hand warmly and
    said, “I would like to thank you for your excellent manners. As
    for the one who passed by me at Dhuhr time, I wish I could see
    him and show him who the real donkey is!”
    The result...
    Your skills of dealing with others determine how they deal
    with you.

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