Don't be Sad
Some cures for ardent, unbridled love
(Thus it was that we might turn away from him evil and illegal sexual intercourse. Surely he was one of our chosen, guided slaves.)
(Quran 12: 24)
- Strive to improve your worship --- by being more sincere --- and invoke Allah to cure you.
- Lower your gaze.
(And protect their private parts from illegal sexual acts, etc.)
(Quran 24: 30)
(And those who guard their chastity [i.e. private parts, from illegal sexual acts].) (Quran 23: 5)
- Travel away from the object of your passion.
- Keep yourself busy in doing good deeds.
(Verily they used to hasten on to do good deeds, and they used to call on Us with hope and fear.) (Quran 21: 90)
- Many lawfully, i.e. in accordance with the Shari'ah.
(……then marry women of your choices….) (Quran 4: 3)
(And among His Signs is this, that He created for you wives from among yourselves, that you may find repose in them…..) (Quran 30: 21)
The Prophet (Blessings and Peace be upon him) said:
"O' group of young men, whoever from you is capable of (paying) the dowry (and taking care of all necessary expenses related to marriage), then let him many."